Life is about "connections" and how we are connected to people. We have experiences of all sorts, work, play, social that make us connected. For instance, here I have just done a wedding when I avowed not to ever do another. Why? Answer. Over 40 years of ministry and having done hundreds, I have some decided views. For most couples, the minister is not an integral part of the experience. This is not a put down, just fact. If a department store manikin could say the words, it would probably be OK. In fact, I am seeing more and more couples doing less traditional things in kind of choreographing their weddings. A minister or judge or in California, almost any person can get authority for a specific wedding or to serve as a master of ceremony. My thoughts have been that if a wedding is done in the context of a church, then the person who does it should be a pastor. Why? Mainly, when the couple gets in trouble and many will, they will have a pastor they can turn too.
This is all philosophy. So, why am I doing this one? Connections. Charlotte, the bride, lived in a flat below Rose. She was always so kind to Rose who took an interest in Charlotte and in Charlotte's future. Charlotte wanted to be a nurse. Rose was always encouraging her. Plus, Charlotte's family, especially Glen, in Rose's last days would carry Rose up the stairs. I was always amazed. He would gently lift her up and take her up the three flights. Rose only weighed 80 pounds or so. She was like a match stick to Glen. It was always so inspiring to me. Now, Charlotte is getting married and wants me to perform the ceremony. Sure. Why? Rose. CONNECTIONS.
And, as often happens, what is sometimes not overly anticipated turns out to be serendipitous in every way. It was a fun wedding. I spent time with about eight ushers. They were so funny that I laughed until my insides hurt. They were kidding the groom, how to escape marriage, various reactions and "insider" stuff. Half of it I didn't understand but their actions were so funny, I laughed and laughed. It was truly one of those, "you had to be there experiences." The wedding was spectacular. Charlotte had written her vows and they were beautiful. And get this: Anthony, the groom, sang his. It was so good, so romantic. And, little Callie was great as the flower girl while Elijah as the ring bearer was less serious than during rehearsal. A wonderful experience and a great connection. For me, I did the wedding in honor of Rose. I felt her presence.
THE REHEARSAL. Glen and Charlotte
